Just read nice article by my very best friend..
about dealing with emotional control..
True, i’m a Koleris-type person..
my life is mainly affected by emotion. Short-time angry, temperamental, hate with somebody who refuse me.
then feel sorry all the time. I’ve got the answer by that article..
You can temper them with positive thinking and a strong faith. If you show any signs of having a victimized mindset then you need to snap out of it and adopt a more positive and reality based mindset instead. That can put you on the right path to get out of your difficulties faster.
“…….If anything befalls you, do not say ‘If only I had done (such and such), the such and such would have happened,’ rather say: ‘Allah has decreed and what He wills He does,’ for ‘if only’ opens the door to the work of the shaytaan.” Narrated by Muslim (2664).